So here is a post on how to cope with being dumped:
Whatever the reason, and you may not know, him rejecting you does NOT mean that everyone feels the same way about you! Do you all have the same friends? No, its people's tastes and circumstances too. But at this time of need, you need to apply a few basic instructions:
1) You need to realise that there is no going back. This IS the end. I am a strong believer that by getting back into a previous relationship is a very very bad idea. However much you want to, you will just make it more painful if you keep a hope up. If there's hope how can you get over these people?!
2) Keep yourself busy. Yes, it will hurt for a little while but keep in control, dance, write a list of stuff that you just love to do and do them! It helps a Goddam lot if you're with friends and other people aswell.
3) Move onwards. Focus on all the good points of the change. You are now free. You can do what you want and think of the numerous opportunities that this change has brought about to your future.
Follow this, and in most situations you will realise that its all part of life's experiences.
Once you are a bit happier, don't go out looking for somebody. Respect yourself. Take this time to be happy being you. And i promise that as soon as you realise this, someone great will come along. :)
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