The Conclusion of Today: Men - who needs them?

There comes a point in every woman's life, when she realises, how incredibly ignorant she has been on a certain topic. And believe it or not, this topis is men. Boys, blokes, guys, twazzocks, bastards, the male species, all the same really. Not only do they do harm, but they do harm unintentionally, so they can't even be put right. And no, i am not saying that women are a better species, as an arogant, self-centred man would believe from me writing this. No, i am saying that men are dumb. Friends, boyfriend's, Ex's. The lot.

How did the revelation occur?

- Well, an inkling occured about a week ago, when my mate Silver believed that i fancied him and when Tin changed his story about what had happened, i got fairly annoyed.
- However, it was mostly the conclusion of today. My Ex came to see me. We broke up about 9 months ago. 9 bloody months. But the relationship was brilliant. We were in love with each other. Well, at least i was in love with him. But the torrents of the North Atlantic Ocean, tore our love apart. And i didn't see the boy for 6 months. I moved on...got a new boyfriend, and so did he. But just before he left he promised me friendship, he promised me a bond like that could never cease. And he lied. Since he got back 3 months ago, i've seen him twice, both at my work. He sent me a week late birthday e-mail. And, when i see him all i get is insults. Would the bloke give it a rest???!!! Worst of all, he has all this talk about him breaking up with me - but noo it was a mutual agreement from the start to break up when he moved to S. A. He took the piss out of me for crying about him leaving - when he cried too! And he laughed. He laughed at me for loving him. The anger that swells in me, from him acting like this is crazy, yet the more i try to be friends, the more anger that eats me up. The arogant tosser still thinks i like him!
My love, i'll have you know, died in South America. I sometimes miss him, but know that what we had, will last within me for the rest of time. Jackass, on the other hand, can go rot in hell for all i care anymore. And to be honest, i don't even think that is harsh.

*breathe*

Yet, i was thinking the other day, how i don't feel i need a man in my life right now. I'm happy. And I'm happy being me, just me. :) Why do we need men anyway? I've got a great abundance of friends, a happy lifestyle and a world which is my oyster. I like being free. And until, as i'm sure will come, the day when i need a man arrives, i am content just the way i am.

And here's a message to every man: Sentivity is not for gays.